Nigerian pastor Nathaniel Bassey has issued a public warning to men about engaging in secret romantic or extramarital relationships, describing such behaviours as potentially harmful to personal wellbeing, family stability and long-term life outcomes.
The message was delivered during a live church broadcast in Lagos on Wednesday 21st Jnauary, where Bassey addressed a growing social conversation around infidelity, relational trust and spiritual values. He said that hidden relationships create vulnerability to emotional distress, reputational harm and broader personal risks.
Bassey’s warning comes against the backdrop of rising public debate in Nigeria about marriage, family cohesion and ethical conduct, particularly among young professionals and public figures. His remarks sought to reinforce a narrative prioritising accountability, transparency and fidelity in relationships.
He also encouraged individuals to examine how lifestyle choices affect their physical, emotional and spiritual health, arguing that secret affairs often mask deeper issues that, if left unaddressed, could lead to long-term regret or consequences.
The pastor’s intervention quickly circulated on social media, prompting reactions from followers and commentators on both sides of the discourse. Supporters highlighted the importance of accountability and strong family values, while some analysts urged discussion on healthy relationship education as part of broader social support structures.
